by Brad Singletary, LCSW | Dec 14, 2023
A man operating in his fullness is not just out here surviving and providing. He evolves into something more. He becomes a teacher and a guide. His attention naturally gravitates toward the men and younger men around him, toward their professional struggles, their...
by Brad Singletary, LCSW | Dec 13, 2023
This is not a popular take, and I genuinely do not care. The women who have the deepest, most devoted, most alive relationships with men share a common thread, and it has nothing to do with looking a certain way or playing games or withholding. It is simpler than...
by Brad Singletary, LCSW | Dec 12, 2023
David Keirsey put it plainly: abandon the project, that endless and fruitless attempt to change the other into a carbon copy of yourself. That one sentence has rattled around in my head because I have lived both sides of it, as the person trying to do the changing and...
by Brad Singletary, LCSW | Dec 10, 2023
Every resentment I carry is telling me something about myself. That took me a long time to accept, because it is a lot more comfortable to believe that resentment is about the other person, about what they did, about how wrong they were. And sometimes they were wrong....
by Brad Singletary, LCSW | Dec 6, 2023
If you are trying to share your feelings and there is no actual emotion word in what you just said, you are not sharing your feelings. You are sharing your judgment, your blame, your expectations, or your defensiveness, and those things will not move a man. Not a...
