Rituals Done With Intention

Rituals Done With Intention

Whether you know it or not, you have rituals. You do certain things at certain times in certain ways, and you do them consistently enough that they’ve become automatic. The question is not whether you have rituals. The question is whether you chose them with...
Ask Great Men to Teach You

Ask Great Men to Teach You

Whenever I find myself around a man I genuinely respect, I ask him to teach me something. My dad, my brothers, my friends, even strangers who carry themselves in a way that tells me they know something I do not. I want to grow from them. I make no apology for that and...
Build Something That Matters

Build Something That Matters

I have done 118 episodes of a podcast for men. I have earned exactly zero dollars from it. And I have spent what amounts to $165,220 worth of my time building it. Most people would call that a bad investment. I call it some of the most important work I have ever done,...
Carrying a Casket

Carrying a Casket

Carrying a casket is one of those experiences that changes the texture of a day. Every step drives something home that most people spend their whole lives avoiding: time is short, and what you do with it is the only thing that actually matters in the end. The Weight...
Decide the Ending First

Decide the Ending First

People ask me all the time how I carry the weight of other people’s problems without getting crushed by it. The honest answer is that I don’t carry it alone, and I don’t carry it blind. I help people move through it, and then they get better. That is...