by Brad Singletary, LCSW | Nov 18, 2018
Sometimes you need a hard reset. You wake up one morning and realize a serious chunk of your life is getting pulled into the black hole. The endless scrolling. The porn. The gaming sessions that swallow whole evenings you will never get back. The tools that were...
by Brad Singletary, LCSW | Nov 10, 2018
As the best ones always do, a friend confronted me today with a simple, repeated question. Brad, what is your motive? What is your motive? It caught me completely off guard, and it made me think far beneath all the justifications and excuses I keep on hand for my...
by Brad Singletary, LCSW | Nov 7, 2018
Worry about your own situation. Worry about the pain you are causing other people. Call your friends and family and tell them exactly how you have failed them. Sounds insane, right? Completely backwards from how we normally operate. But the truth is, we would almost...
by Brad Singletary, LCSW | Oct 3, 2018
What is your job right now? Not your title. Your actual assignment in this season of your life. What business are you responsible for handling today? Focusing at work. Playing with your kids. Getting the bills paid. Whatever it is, be serious and intentional with...
by Brad Singletary, LCSW | Sep 21, 2018
Think about the person, or the people, who have hurt you. Now sit with an uncomfortable truth. If we do not make intentional efforts to prevent it, we tend to drift into the very behavior they once used to wound us. The thing we hated has a way of becoming the thing...