Ask Great Men to Teach You

Ask Great Men to Teach You

Whenever I find myself around a man I genuinely respect, I ask him to teach me something. My dad, my brothers, my friends, even strangers who carry themselves in a way that tells me they know something I do not. I want to grow from them. I make no apology for that and...
The Feminine Archetypes

The Feminine Archetypes

I have spent years studying the Jungian masculine archetypes: the King, the Warrior, the Magician, and the Lover. I understand them deeply. But I kept wondering what the feminine counterparts actually look like, not in theory, but in a real person standing right in...
Refill Before You Pour

Refill Before You Pour

I spend a lot of my life trying to pour into other people. That is the job. That is also the calling. But there comes a point where every man who gives consistently and heavily has to stop and do something for himself. Not out of selfishness. Out of survival. You...
Passion Intimacy Commitment

Passion Intimacy Commitment

There are three things that define whether you are actually in a relationship or just sharing an address with someone. Passion. Intimacy. Commitment. If all three are absent, you are living with a stranger. If one of them has turned hostile, you might be living with...
Build Something That Matters

Build Something That Matters

I have done 118 episodes of a podcast for men. I have earned exactly zero dollars from it. And I have spent what amounts to $165,220 worth of my time building it. Most people would call that a bad investment. I call it some of the most important work I have ever done,...
Gratitude Precedes Hope

Gratitude Precedes Hope

Gratitude is not just a feel-good practice that belongs in a journal or a morning routine. It is the prerequisite for hope. And without hope, a man cannot move forward in any meaningful direction. That connection matters more than most people realize, and...