by Brad Singletary, LCSW | Jan 6, 2019
Time to produce. I cannot wait to get back with my tribe of brothers tonight to record a couple of podcast episodes. It has been three weeks, and I miss their dumb jokes and the way they keep me locked in on what I am actually supposed to be doing. Because here is a...
by Brad Singletary, LCSW | Jan 4, 2019
I was talking this week with a brilliant man, and the deep question was not mine. It was his. That is usually how it goes with this guy. He sits across from me and gives the most beautiful account of his own inner life, explaining that he is simply obeying the orders...
by Brad Singletary, LCSW | Jan 3, 2019
Most hunger is actually thirst. Most anger is actually fear. And most of the destructive things we do are just clumsy attempts to deal with fear and unmet needs we never properly named. Get under the surface of almost any blowup, and you will usually find something...
by Brad Singletary, LCSW | Jan 1, 2019
What an awesome way to start a year. Going up. A friend of mine has GOANDDO stamped on his license plate. There is some history behind that phrase, drawn from a book we have both read, and it has stuck with me for years. It is a small thing to see on the back of a...
by Brad Singletary, LCSW | Dec 31, 2018
When we let ourselves actually feel something, even the hard stuff, our first instinct is to run from it. We are a generation of expert escape artists. But after twenty years of helping people heal, and forty three years of self medicating with music myself, I can...