Raising Boys Made Me Better

Raising Boys Made Me Better

I wanted girls too. I just did not get any. And now, having raised six boys, I am not sure I would have known what to do with a daughter anyway. Boys I understand. Boys I can work with. And these six have made me want to be better every single day. Fatherhood is the...
Strong Enough to Be Wrong

Strong Enough to Be Wrong

The smartest guy in the room is often the most dangerous one, especially when he’s wrong and doesn’t know it. Most men have a reflex built into them from the time they were boys: protect the position, defend the call, never back down. And for a while, that...
Validate Her Feelings

Validate Her Feelings

Here is a skill most men were never taught, and the lack of it is quietly wrecking more relationships than infidelity ever will: validation. Not agreement. Not fixing. Not explaining why she should feel differently. Just the simple, powerful act of letting someone...
Men Need Men

Men Need Men

Let me say something that might rub some guys the wrong way: men need men, possibly even more than they need women. That is not a knock on women. It is a recognition that there is a specific, irreplaceable kind of sharpening that happens between men who are honest...