Connect Before It Ends

Connect Before It Ends

You cannot starve yourself to death to avoid the possibility of hunger. Yet that is exactly what a lot of men do with connection. They pull back, stay surface-level, never let anyone fully in, all because they are afraid of the day it might end. That is not wisdom....
Check Your Blind Spot

Check Your Blind Spot

I hit 100 episodes of the Alpha Quorum podcast and I was proud. I had been on nearly every single one of them. I had poured time, money, and a lot of myself into that work. And then someone casually recommended an episode to me, episode 30, and I realized I had never...
Master Yourself First

Master Yourself First

The man who is always trying to dominate everyone around him is usually running from something he cannot dominate inside himself. You see it everywhere. The guy who has to win every argument, control every situation, assert himself in every room. He looks powerful...
Polarity Made Simple

Polarity Made Simple

It really is not that complicated. Men and women have been overanalyzing relationships for decades while missing the simplest truth in the room: when he is grounded and she is open, things work. When those two dynamics flip or collapse, everything falls apart. Not...
Just Hold On

Just Hold On

One of my clients told me a story recently that I have not been able to shake. He has a teenage son with autism. Severe case. His boy is a big kid, six feet tall, 200 pounds, and he has no ability to read social cues. What he does have is an enormous heart. And his...