by Brad Singletary, LCSW | Jan 28, 2024
Here’s something I say plainly to anyone who will listen: victimhood doesn’t serve men the way it serves others. That’s not a dismissal of men’s suffering. Men suffer enormously. What I’m saying is that the framework of victimhood, the...
by Brad Singletary, LCSW | Jan 13, 2024
Let me give you the direct version because the people who need to hear this don’t need it softened. Women have specific patterns that damage relationships with men, and men have specific patterns that damage relationships with women. Neither side gets a pass....
by Brad Singletary, LCSW | Jan 4, 2024
Fight or flight is one of the most destructive states a man can operate from, and most of us live there far too often. That hair-trigger, reactive mode was designed for actual predators. It was not built for bad traffic, a difficult conversation with your spouse, or a...
by Brad Singletary, LCSW | Dec 27, 2023
When something enormous lands in your lap, a major life decision, a crossroads, a crisis, the worst thing you can do is make a move from inside the chaos. Decisions made from panic, rage, grief, or desperation almost never serve you. They almost always cost you. I...
by Brad Singletary, LCSW | Dec 14, 2023
Attitude is not just a thought in your head or a perspective you hold. It is something that radiates, something that other people in the room can feel before you ever say a word. You can walk into a space completely silent and an emotionally perceptive person will...
