by Brad Singletary, LCSW | Apr 12, 2019
Weapons were buried today. On a desert mountainside at the edge of town, in the dirt, on purpose. Let me tell you what that means, because it is one of the more powerful things I have witnessed in this work. I have been meeting with a divorced couple who are trying to...
by Brad Singletary, LCSW | Mar 21, 2019
Here is something I have learned over a lifetime of watching people closely. Happiness shows up during our seasons of growth. It is almost that predictable. Look back at the most satisfying stretches of your own life. I would bet you were busy. You were hustling...
by Brad Singletary, LCSW | Jan 30, 2019
The first words anyone spoke to me today were good morning and thank you. I was at the gas station grabbing my convenience store poisons, and I held the door for an older woman with the biggest smile, and four simple words from her made my whole day better before it...
by Brad Singletary, LCSW | Jan 15, 2019
Emotional reactivity often traces back to earlier trauma. Physical abuse. Sexual abuse. Devastating losses. All kinds of terrible circumstances a person never asked for and did not deserve. And some people who struggle with emotional regulation quietly expect everyone...
by Brad Singletary, LCSW | Jan 10, 2019
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