by Brad Singletary, LCSW | Dec 13, 2023
This is not a popular take, and I genuinely do not care. The women who have the deepest, most devoted, most alive relationships with men share a common thread, and it has nothing to do with looking a certain way or playing games or withholding. It is simpler than...
by Brad Singletary, LCSW | Dec 12, 2023
David Keirsey put it plainly: abandon the project, that endless and fruitless attempt to change the other into a carbon copy of yourself. That one sentence has rattled around in my head because I have lived both sides of it, as the person trying to do the changing and...
by Brad Singletary, LCSW | Dec 6, 2023
If you are trying to share your feelings and there is no actual emotion word in what you just said, you are not sharing your feelings. You are sharing your judgment, your blame, your expectations, or your defensiveness, and those things will not move a man. Not a...
by Brad Singletary, LCSW | Nov 20, 2023
I have spent years studying the Jungian masculine archetypes: the King, the Warrior, the Magician, and the Lover. I understand them deeply. But I kept wondering what the feminine counterparts actually look like, not in theory, but in a real person standing right in...
by Brad Singletary, LCSW | Nov 16, 2023
There are three things that define whether you are actually in a relationship or just sharing an address with someone. Passion. Intimacy. Commitment. If all three are absent, you are living with a stranger. If one of them has turned hostile, you might be living with...
