by Brad Singletary, LCSW | Dec 27, 2023
When something enormous lands in your lap, a major life decision, a crossroads, a crisis, the worst thing you can do is make a move from inside the chaos. Decisions made from panic, rage, grief, or desperation almost never serve you. They almost always cost you. I...
by Brad Singletary, LCSW | Dec 17, 2023
There are people in my life right now who are carrying things I would not wish on anyone. And I am writing this for them. I think about the man being torn apart in family court over circumstances that have nothing to do with what kind of father he is. The woman who...
by Brad Singletary, LCSW | Dec 14, 2023
Attitude is not just a thought in your head or a perspective you hold. It is something that radiates, something that other people in the room can feel before you ever say a word. You can walk into a space completely silent and an emotionally perceptive person will...
by Brad Singletary, LCSW | Dec 14, 2023
A man operating in his fullness is not just out here surviving and providing. He evolves into something more. He becomes a teacher and a guide. His attention naturally gravitates toward the men and younger men around him, toward their professional struggles, their...
by Brad Singletary, LCSW | Dec 13, 2023
This is not a popular take, and I genuinely do not care. The women who have the deepest, most devoted, most alive relationships with men share a common thread, and it has nothing to do with looking a certain way or playing games or withholding. It is simpler than...
by Brad Singletary, LCSW | Dec 12, 2023
David Keirsey put it plainly: abandon the project, that endless and fruitless attempt to change the other into a carbon copy of yourself. That one sentence has rattled around in my head because I have lived both sides of it, as the person trying to do the changing and...
