The Man Who Leads

The Man Who Leads

A man operating in his fullness is not just out here surviving and providing. He evolves into something more. He becomes a teacher and a guide. His attention naturally gravitates toward the men and younger men around him, toward their professional struggles, their...
Own What You Broadcast

Own What You Broadcast

Attitude is not just a thought in your head or a perspective you hold. It is something that radiates, something that other people in the room can feel before you ever say a word. You can walk into a space completely silent and an emotionally perceptive person will...
What Ignites a Man’s Devotion

What Ignites a Man’s Devotion

This is not a popular take, and I genuinely do not care. The women who have the deepest, most devoted, most alive relationships with men share a common thread, and it has nothing to do with looking a certain way or playing games or withholding. It is simpler than...
Stop Cloning Your Partner

Stop Cloning Your Partner

David Keirsey put it plainly: abandon the project, that endless and fruitless attempt to change the other into a carbon copy of yourself. That one sentence has rattled around in my head because I have lived both sides of it, as the person trying to do the changing and...
Confront Your Shame

Confront Your Shame

Confront your shame head-on. It does not matter how it got there or who put it there. It is yours now. And the only way out runs straight through it, not around it. A lot of people have a hard time with that framing because it sounds like victim-blaming. It is not....