by Brad Singletary, LCSW | Apr 19, 2019
I work with couples, and so many of their problems trace back to one quiet thing. They have different definitions of normal. Not different values, not even different goals. Just two people who each absorbed a different picture of how a home and a marriage are supposed...
by Brad Singletary, LCSW | Apr 16, 2019
I was having a brutal week. A brutal month. Honestly, a brutal year. Things had not gone the way I had hoped on so many levels, and this week in particular was rough. Two of my kids had the flu, I was not feeling great myself, and I was starting to lose control of my...
by Brad Singletary, LCSW | Apr 12, 2019
Weapons were buried today. On a desert mountainside at the edge of town, in the dirt, on purpose. Let me tell you what that means, because it is one of the more powerful things I have witnessed in this work. I have been meeting with a divorced couple who are trying to...
by Brad Singletary, LCSW | Mar 21, 2019
Here is something I have learned over a lifetime of watching people closely. Happiness shows up during our seasons of growth. It is almost that predictable. Look back at the most satisfying stretches of your own life. I would bet you were busy. You were hustling...
by Brad Singletary, LCSW | Mar 5, 2019
People assume my job as a therapist is to hand out advice. I do, occasionally, but usually I do not. Instead, I try to help people find their own solutions, because the answer a man arrives at himself sticks far better than the one handed to him. And one of the first...
