When the Tank Is Empty

When the Tank Is Empty

Some days the tank is completely empty. Not low. Not running on fumes. Flat empty. The kind of tired that sleep does not fix, because it is not physical. It lives somewhere deeper than muscles and rest. It is the weariness of a man who has been carrying things that...
Know Who You Are

Know Who You Are

After almost twenty-two years of helping people heal and rebuild their lives, the most consistent thing I have seen is not addiction or trauma or failed marriages. Those are painful, but they are treatable. The deepest wound I keep encountering is this: people never...
Beyond the Solstice: A Season of Darkness Ends

Beyond the Solstice: A Season of Darkness Ends

In college I took an astronomy class, and for fifteen weeks I had to track the exact time of sunrise and sunset every single day. This was before you could pull it up on a phone in two seconds. I literally stood outside all semester, pen and paper in hand, writing...
New Office, New Season of Growth

New Office, New Season of Growth

I am saying goodbye to my office this weekend. Excited, but a little reflective as I pack it up and move into a newly renovated suite just down the hall. I have been in this office exactly three years. At my weekly average, that is somewhere around seven thousand...