Seasons Change: Answer the Call to Shed and Grow

by Brad Singletary, LCSW | Oct 19, 2019

Brad Singletary, LCSW

Brad Singletary, LCSW

Licensed Clinical Social Worker · Men's Coach

For 25+ years I've helped people build stronger character, healthier relationships, and lives they respect — through therapy, coaching, and writing.

It might be cooler tomorrow than it was today. Change is coming to the Earth itself, and it is intentional. There is a purpose behind it, one that quietly sustains the very life we so often take for granted. Nothing about the turning of the seasons is an accident, and nothing about the turning of yours is either.

The Same Force Is Seeking Change in You

Here is what I want you to sit with. The same force that drives the changing of the seasons is also seeking change in you. Whatever that change is, it wants you better. It is not out to punish you. It is asking you to shed the old so that new growth can appear in the season that is coming. So are you going to answer the call? Because the truth is, it has been hinting at a new season in your life for longer than you have wanted to admit.

You have felt it. The quiet nudge that something needs to fall away. The sense that you have outgrown a way of living, thinking, or relating that used to fit you just fine and now does not. Most men feel that nudge and immediately drown it out, because answering it means change, and change means leaving the comfortable thing behind.

Don't Be Afraid to Drop Your Leaves

These are the last three months before a new year. That makes right now a perfect time to take honest stock, to evaluate where you are and decide where you actually want to be. The future is coming whether you like it or not. The only real question is whether you will meet it having grown, or having clung to a version of yourself that already expired.

So do not be afraid to drop your leaves, even the beautiful ones that are quietly dying. Let them go. The forest floor beneath you needs them. That is literally how the next season gets fed. What you release in this season becomes the nourishment for the next one, which means nothing you let go of in faith is ever truly wasted. Let it fall, and trust the growth that is already on its way.