Move Through Anxiety

by Brad Singletary, LCSW | Jan 7, 2020

Brad Singletary, LCSW

Brad Singletary, LCSW

Licensed Clinical Social Worker · Men's Coach

For 25+ years I've helped people build stronger character, healthier relationships, and lives they respect — through therapy, coaching, and writing.

Inactivity and anxiety are a terrible combination. Sitting still with worry and fear and the physical tension that anxiety generates is one of the most uncomfortable experiences a person can have. The thoughts race, the chest tightens, the stomach turns, and because you are not moving, the energy has nowhere to go. It just keeps building. It just keeps spinning. And doing nothing makes it worse, not better.

I have lived this personally. In the hardest seasons of my own life, the thing that saved me was movement. Not meditation, not talking it through, not waiting for the feeling to pass. Getting up and doing something with my body. Sometimes it was exercise. Sometimes it was organizing the garage or building something or cleaning the house from floor to ceiling. Whatever it was, it worked in a way that sitting never could.

Reframe What Anxiety Is Telling You

Here is a shift worth making. Instead of treating anxiety as a problem to be endured, try treating it as a signal that your body wants you to do something. Anxiety is energy. It is your nervous system charging up for action. The racing heart, the tight muscles, the restlessness, that is not a malfunction. That is your body primed to move. When you stay still, you are sitting on a live wire with nowhere to send the current. That hurts.

Channel it instead. Direct that energy toward something with purpose. Clean something. Build something. Fix something that has been broken. Go for a walk and do not stop until you feel the shift. Your body knows what it needs. You just have to be willing to listen.

What Actually Works

I worked with a man who could not get his anxiety under control through medication. He had tried multiple approaches with his doctor and nothing was landing. His psychiatrist told him to walk until he was tired. He ended up walking twenty-five miles a day. He lost weight, he worked through troubled thoughts in motion, he slept better, and he found a level of peace that had been completely unavailable to him when he was sitting still. The movement was the medicine.

I am not saying physical movement replaces professional support when you need it. If anxiety is seriously disrupting your life, get help. See a therapist. Work with a doctor. Those tools matter. But in the meantime, and alongside anything else you are doing, use the power of your body in motion as a first line of response.

Get off the couch. Change your physical state and you change your emotional state. That is not a metaphor. That is physiology. Your body and your mind are not separate systems running in parallel. They are the same system, and you can access the mental through the physical in ways that nothing else quite matches.

The anxiety is sending you a message. The message is: move. Listen to it.